Chapter 1: Redefining Success

Navigating through a world that celebrates achievement can be challenging, especially if you belong to a family that prioritizes accolades over the essence of who you are. For those who share a similar upbringing, the journey to redefine success based on your values can be daunting.

My elder brother was undeniably gifted; he excelled academically and garnered admiration for his intellect. Growing up, I often felt overshadowed until I realized the warmth of my own aspirations.

What does success truly mean to you?

I pursued a degree in Economics, defying expectations and thriving in a field I genuinely enjoyed. This passion unlocked numerous opportunities for me to achieve financial success. After twenty-five years working as a financial advisor, helping affluent clients accumulate wealth—along with acquiring luxurious possessions like two homes and three cars—I began to feel an inner calling for a more profound purpose, one that could positively affect others.

Where does one begin?

The distinction between success and significance is crucial. John Maxwell, in his book "21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership," succinctly states that success is defined as "adding value to oneself," whereas significance revolves around "adding value to others."

What drives your actions—success or significance?

Transitioning toward significance can be particularly challenging if your life has been dedicated to pursuing societal definitions of success. However, achieving success and making a meaningful impact are not mutually exclusive. It is entirely possible to be both impactful and successful.

But how can you prioritize significance over success? Would you still appreciate significance if success eluded you? Or do you equate success with the value you bring to others' lives?

Here are steps to shift from success to significance:

1. Reassess Your Definition of Success: Reflect on what success means to you personally.
2. Envision a Purpose Larger Than Yourself: Create a life vision that extends beyond individual achievement.
3. Seek Meaning in Your Work: If your job lacks fulfillment, consider finding greater significance in what you do. If that’s not possible, proceed to the next step.
4. Identify Your Passion: Ask yourself if you would continue in your current role if financial security was guaranteed. If not, explore what you would choose to pursue instead.
5. Develop a Concrete Plan: Outline realistic steps to transition toward a more meaningful path, including timelines for initiating your goals.
6. Take Daily Action: Engage in activities that align with your new purpose.

Significance can also be found outside of professional life; volunteering and community involvement can provide a sense of purpose.

If you feel a strong urge to contribute beyond your professional obligations, don’t disregard it. With determination, focus, and a structured approach, you can make a substantial impact in the world.

Chapter 2: Embracing Significance

The second video, "Ep. #19 - Moving from Success to Significance with Dean Niewolny," provides insights on how to navigate this transition, offering valuable perspectives and advice.

By embracing these principles, you can embark on a fulfilling journey towards a life rich in significance and impact.