Life Inventory: Understanding My Privileges

As an only child of middle-class Chinese parents in Hong Kong, I've experienced life in a prosperous environment where I belong to the majority. It wasn't until I moved to a different culture that I recognized this privilege. Thriving in a society where your culture and norms are shared with those around you is significantly easier.

At thirteen, I was sent to the UK for schooling, a privilege that most children in Hong Kong can only dream of. Suddenly, I found myself part of a minority group—an individual from a privileged background back home, yet speaking English with a faux-British accent.

Moreover, my academic success led me to a prestigious university, granting me numerous professional opportunities.

Born in the 21st century, I benefit from the advancements made by previous feminist movements. While we still have a long way to go, my circumstances are far better than those of earlier generations of women.

However, I often find myself comparing my life to those who seem to have it better. I question why I wasn't born a man to avoid workplace discrimination, even though I have not faced significant bias. I ponder why I am not more attractive or smarter, despite possessing enough talent to succeed. It is human nature to aspire for more, and I frequently feel a sense of dissatisfaction.

I crave more—more friends, more financial freedom, more followers, more of everything. Our society constantly pushes us to seek excess, which can dilute our identity. In this quest for validation, we often overlook our inner voice. We resemble hamsters on a wheel, always moving yet getting nowhere.

This realization is frustrating, and I yearn for change. I desire a sense of contentment, which I achieve by recognizing my privileges—my blessings.

By acknowledging my circumstances and taking stock of my life, I can engage with the world in a different way, creating a new reality. Instead of striving for more externally, I focus on what I can cultivate within myself.

I stopped chasing after superficial gains and began to appreciate my blessings, even those that were not immediately obvious.

Admitting to having privileges can feel boastful, yet there is empowerment in that acknowledgment. Growing up with advantages is not a fault; instead, it can be a catalyst for positive change in the world.

I choose to express myself through writing. Rather than dwelling on my discontent, I aim to share my experiences and joy. I document my journey, detailing what it means to be a young, Asian woman passionate about the environment.

By sharing these insights and experiences, I hope to connect with others and encourage them to reflect on their own journeys.

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